WHY THE WORLD IS FULL OF CHEATS?

I wish I could say I had the answers to all the questions, but I too am thirsty for answers. “for a star to be born, there is  one thing that must happen; a gaseous nebula must collapse” likewise for people to cheat, a few things must have gone wrong.. According to severe research I can stay safe and highlight some reasons WHY THE WORLD IS FULL OF CHEATS, this is not in any way saying that it is alright to cheat, but rather this is serving as a soft whisper answering the rhetorical questions we sometimes ask ourselves like; “why did I do that?

However, this article is not focused on any gender in particular, as it applies to both male and female.

We often cannot decide or choose who we appeal to, many times we get turned off either by the caliber or physical appearance of the people that we appeal to that the option of cheating might never cross our minds, but what happens when a particular person doesn’t exactly irritate us or tickles our fancy either but is determined enough to make themselves more desirable to us and we cannot say NO! When this happens?

That is not the case all the time, sometimes people cheat with eyes wide open either because their  “gang’ members do and they do not want to be left out or because they enjoy the thrill of the chase, because in the some twisted minds, dodging, sneaking around and ducking is a form of recreation. At other times people cheat because as men they feel that all men cheat and they are not alone or as women they feel that all men cheat and they don’t want to be at the losing end and that it might probably hurt less if they were cheating too. for silly reasons like the fact that they are smart enough to not get caught or because “monogamy” is a silly thing or more so because they need to check that they are still appealing to others. 

Many times it’s not the “others’ fault that they are been cheated on, as some people consider cheating as something that is attached to a particular status, as a sense of entitlement because they feel rich, famous, charming or even sexy enough not to, but at other times, it is as much as the “others” fault, they either allowed it, or didn’t find out about it before and might not find out about it again, or probably too naïve, busy or sadly stupid to consider the fact that they are been cheated on.

But when cheating doesn’t seem like much of sin is when for example; LOVE is involved, push turning into shoves and that innocent relationship metamorphoses into something more real, or the fact that the foundation was already faulty, where infidelity is considered to be the norm, or a culture where it is common to do whatever please you.

Funny enough, some people with low self esteem cheat because it sorts of serve as an ego boost, or because of their sexual orientation, just to be someone else or to participate in certain sex acts that they cant practice with their partners and at other times  due to the influence of drugs or alcohol.

But if people cheat because they can’t be bold enough to end the relationship and they feel cheating will be a good means to kick them out the door, or in some cases ( mostly with women) because they are trying to get revenge, I don’t need to know them personally to state that they still need some growing up to do, doing something wrong for someone else’s sake can never get enough justification. Or in situations where boredom or dissatisfaction and the thirst for more